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Why I Unfollowed You on Twitter

11/9/2013

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Whether you use Twitter, Facebook, Edmodo communities, Google+, individual blogs, or other methods, everyone has a reason for sharing what they do, promoting what they do, and finding relationships with others who do the same.

I started tweeting because someone told me to.  Seriously.  The teacher in charge of the EdTech committee in my district said that getting on twitter was the most important move she had made in the last year of professional development.  So I asked a few students to show me the ropes, and then I tried to find teachers to follow.

I started with those "Top Educators To Follow" lists.  I have since unfollowed most of those people.  Here are some of the reasons I unfollowed them, and why I STILL hesitate to follow people now:
  1. They tweet too many uninteresting automated messages.  Things like "Your Daily Tweeted Times" type of things.   I don't mind a few of those, but when you do 4-7 a day...ugh.
  2. They don't engage with people regularly.  I don't need to be the one engaged with, but if they spend the majority of their time sharing instead of interacting, I'm the product, not the audience.  Conversations are the entire point.
  3. Over 75% of their tweets are about pimping their own work.  


I want to focus on the third point, because it's the most nuanced.  I do share my own blog posts, my donorschoose project (funded in 6 days! eff yeah!), the book I co-wrote, and the chat I moderate.  I also will occasionally tweet or write about products I've used, like the iPEVO review I posted this week.

However, the majority of my tweets are engaging with others.  I've slowed down on the tweeting lately bc reasons (commuting 3 hours a day, increased weekend responsibility, etc.) but when I am tweeting, I focus on the people, not all of the things I've done in my twitter absence.

Recently, I have noticed that some people with whom I used to interact frequently have moved above the 75% self-promotion line.  They post the link to their home page, not to the new post they've written.  They solicit people to come to webinars but don't share the ideas that make their webinar worth attending.  They post #HumbleBrags about awards they received, successes they've had, and all of the projects they're working on.

Basically it comes down to this: If these people were sitting at a dinner party with me, they would be talking about themselves so much that they didn't notice others sitting at the table.  I don't have time for that kind of person in my real life, and they are not adding anything to my twitter life either.

If getting more followers is more important than meaningfully engaging with the followers you DO have, then I am not interested.  It also reminds me to keep engaging with my PLN beyond the small concentric circles to which I normally turn.  

I'd like to know your thoughts.

Why do YOU engage with social media?  Why do you follow or unfollow someone?  Are you spending more time learning and listening than talking?
11 Comments
Bryn Williams link
11/9/2013 07:39:14 am

I agree that you need to consider carefully who you follow. However, I have often unfollowed people for the very reasons you state, self-promotion, not connecting, or having irrelevant ( to me) conversations about good restaurants in cities I'm not in.
I do, however, follow as many educators working in classrooms as I can. Some insights about their particular environment can mean something to my situation, or trigger a thought or idea

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Chris Harris link
11/9/2013 07:46:44 am

I started tweeting recently, when I started a new position as a math coach. My daughter had tried to get me to do it a while ago but I didn't see the necessity. A much younger ,techy person at my Office showed me how to use twitter. She encouraged me to use twitter as a professional tool. And I have.
I communicate with a group of math educators across the continent.
Currently I spend more time listening and learning, much more time.
But I do notice all the behaviors you mentioned. And I noticed it before I read this piece.
I use Facebook for personal stuff - looking up old friends, seeing how their families have grown. The occasional line about my kids accomplishments, my vacation, a news story. I must say there is less 'self-promoting' on Facebook than Twitter.
I will continue to follow people who offer me insight into math, math education. That is until I get tired of their nonsense, then I'll look for others.
Thanks for making me think about this.

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@jstevens009 link
11/9/2013 08:48:09 am

Chris, I'm with you on this. Cheryl, I think you nailed the post with exactly how I feel. I have recently unfollowed a few folks for the simple reason that they are tweeting out 12-15 links per hour and don't elaborate on any of them. I don't click, I don't read, I just watch as they fill up my feed. Do I promote things that I do? Yep. However, I do it so that I can get feedback on how to improve.

Chris, I agree with the math. I have taken a liking to people who can directly impact my math teaching, as well as a few non-math to keep me balanced. I have no idea how I could be following 1000+ people.

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S Hiltbrand
11/9/2013 08:16:27 am

Thanks so much for this! You jumped in my brain & very eloquently described some of my frustrations with some folks on Twitter...especially the self-promotion part. My hubby (non-educator) & I have been talking about this. When did getting accolades for something in a classroom become so much about the teacher being the hero & not about the kids which is why we do what we do as teachers? (Sorry about the probable run-on English teachers...I teach science for a reason. :-) )

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Judy
11/9/2013 09:01:37 am

Don't follow people who do self-promotions. Mostly follow educators or educational organizations, and find helpful information as a result. Also, join some educational chats, which generally stay focused, and have Twitter Lists (e.g, English, Social Studies, Principals/Admin), and can turn to those Lists to help me filter through the stream of Twitter feeds. Because I speed read, I can also spot those self-promoting themselves, and can skip right over their tweets. Every once in awhile, I will clean up my who I follow. In the end, I do agree with you: hate the posts that call out "look at me or look at my product."

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Amanda Meyer
11/9/2013 09:22:08 am

Although I agree that the Twitter habits you describe can be annoying from my perspective as well, I disagree with three assumptions that your post seems to be making (please correct me if I'm misinterpreting it).

Assumption 1. The Twitter-verse has some sort of code of ethics, or "rules."

You seem to be scolding people for simply being human in a space that allows people to be whatever they want. Yes, people will brag and self-promote on Twitter, and it is their right to do so, as much as they want.

Assumption 2. Everyone's purpose for using Twitter is for learning and listening.

Although the majority of educators are on Twitter just for this purpose, that is not what each and every person needs from Twitter. Some people need a place to share their accomplishments. Others don't have a voice in their face-to-face world and having the opportunity to share what they know over social media empowers them. It might not be helpful for other educators, but it is what those individuals need for their own lives.

Assumption 3. Having a following on Twitter is important.

A couple of months ago, I came across an article, shared on Twitter, about Twitter do's and don'ts. One of the items that bothered me the most was the suggestion that one needed to watch his/her "follows" vs. "followers" ratio closely, implying that if you had too many follows compared to your followers, you were somehow a Twitter outcast. Personally, I don't care about who follows me and who doesn't. I am on Twitter to share and learn, but I'm not going to alter what I post or how often I post to attract or maintain followers.

To sum this up, the reasons that people use Twitter are as diverse as our personalities. I don't think we have the right to ask others to conform to our "Twitter expectations." The choice to un-follow doesn't need to be personal.

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shawn white
11/9/2013 11:44:08 am

With respect, Amanda, I didn't read this as Cheryl making assumptions or suggesting others should tweet in a certain manner, but rather sharing her personal perspective of what has led to her choices in disconnecting from some accounts based on how she wishes to approach the space. After reading this comment I re-read the post thinking I missed something. I don't think from my reading that Cheryl is asking others to conform to her expectations or making it personal, but rather is giving voice to her approach as an explanation for any who may wonder why she unfollowed or chooses not to follow them. Sincerely.

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Amanda
11/9/2013 01:26:55 pm

Shawn, thank you for continuing this discussion! In the spirit of a good debate, I'd like to further clarify my position.

I understand that the purpose of Cheryl's post is to discuss why she chose to unfollow people, and as I said, I agree with her reasoning. The tone of the post, and those of others that I have read, comes across as being somewhat judgmental, however. Saying she "doesn't have time" for a particular type of person in her life based on how they choose to post on Twitter is harsh, and personal, in my opinion. It's fine if you don't find someone's Twitter posts helpful or engaging - simply unfollow them. Writing about why you unfollowed them can come across as prescriptive, however.

I want to make it clear that I am not attacking Cheryl (intentions can be a difficult thing to convey via text), I simply feel uncomfortable with some of the implications of the original post. Maybe it's just the culmination of a few "connected educators" posts that were shared this past month that didn't sit well with me. I worry about Twitter falling prey to the clique mentality that we all hated in high school.



Jasper Fox Sr. link
11/9/2013 10:33:08 am

Found myself nodding along while reading this post. I especially liked how you got your feelings down without being too negative or using specific examples. Twitter is definitely a microcosm of society and with the good comes the bad. Self aggrandizement is off putting in face to face, and I think its amplified online when it occurs. Recently I've also had a few experiences on Twitter that challenged me to recalibrate my follow metric. I now look specifically at a potential follows bio and read their blog. If it hasn't been updated within the last month than I usually won't follow unless there is something else compelling there. Personally I am not interested in accounts that have lopsided follow/ follower ratios, they tend to be accounts that as you so say don't engage in discourse regularly (or at all). Thanks for writing such an honest post, looking at the discussion you inspired its a good topic!

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Jen
11/18/2013 07:48:56 am

Wow! This post has really given me something to think about. I used to be a technology coach, but went back into the classroom five years ago. I didn't join any social media until last February. It always made me nervous, so I stayed out of it and nobody really talked about the importance for professional development. I started using Twitter last spring for track practice announcements. I didn't really follow anyone. This fall, I started following people in the education profession. It has been invigorating and quite overwhelming at the same time. I feel sometimes like I'm doing something wrong b/c I can't find the time to read all the things I see. Thank you for helping me to take a breath! I do more listening and learning right now, but know I will make that shift by the end of the year. Thanks again and thank you for sharing!

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Scott Smith
11/18/2013 12:29:41 pm

Cheryl,
Nice post about this topic. I actually stopped following a very important weekly chat for a while because people were talking about their teachings as being #eduawesome. I am glad people like to share successes, but after a while I just need a break. There have been moderators of chats who compliment each other to the point that I wonder if they only pay attention to a select few. When I see someone say they are in twitter jail I have to wonder why. Self promotion comes to mind.
This is a minor topic to me, but I just thought I'd give my comments.

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